We had to wake up early again today for another round of paperwork. Before leaving the apartment, I read my devotional which led me to the following verse, one I do not remember reading before:
Psalm 27:8
My heart says of you, "Seek his face!"
Your face, LORD, I will seek.
This is what my heart and mind have been struggling with....my mind thinks too much about the "what ifs and the how in the world?" while my heart strives to lean on God, trust God, believe in His promises.
The first line of my devotion today (Jesus Calling by Sarah Young) says: There is a mighty battle going on for control of your mind.
That is certainly the case in my life.
I had no idea when I read that verse this morning, how much I would lean on it today.
Our first stop was a medical facility for Valera to have his blood drawn. I had prayed last night and this morning for him, in regards to this. I figure he has not had the exposure to vaccinations, shots, etc. like most children in America. As I fretted for him over this, I was comforted to know that I would be there for him...hold his hand if he needed me to, wipe a tear if necessary.
Anya explained to him on the way there what was going to happen. He told her he was nervous.
The three of us walked into the building, while Pa and Den stayed in the car. We checked in and Valera had that same nervous look he had at court on Sept. 6th. Fortunately, he was called quickly. I followed behind him and just as he was about to enter the room, he turned around and motioned for me to wait in the hallway.
Oh. i guess no hand holding or tear wiping. As I sat down, I thought to myself..."he doesn't want me."
Then the verse above immediately came to my mind. Your face, Lord, I will seek. I realized then how focused I have been on myself over the past 40 days. What if I am not good enough, what if Valera doesn't want me, What if it is too hard for me?" I have been seeking MY face.
I quickly heard God say to me, "he might not want you in this particular situation, or at all, but I want you. I have chosen you to be his mom. This isn't about you feeling good, feeling needed or loved by Valera. This is about you doing what I have called you to do. This is about dying to yourself!"
And I felt His strength fill me up. Something that would have made me cry a few days ago....certainly effected me momentarily, as I am human....but I thought of myself seeking the Lod's face and felt a peace that I know only comes from Him.
We continued on with our day...driving around, doing paperwork. We went to the orphanage for the last time today. More opportunities to meditate on that verse.
Watching Valera's friends see him today......Seek his face.
Watching friends hug all over Valera......Seek His face.
Seeing his friends in the windows waving goodbye.....Seek His face
Wishing there wasn't an orphan in the world....Seek His face.
Crying over the ones left behind...Seek His face.
We drove away. I felt so many mixed emotions. Anya assured me that Valera was probably thinking of the river he can swim across, and the bridge he can jump off of.
We were supposed to apply for his passport today, but the computer systems aren't working. Please pray that they are working in the morning.
We are going to another soccer game tonight, then have another early morning. Thanks for your prayers. I feel them. My biggest prayer requests are that we can apply for his passport tomorrow, and that I would continue to seek the Lord's face.
You always have to words to put with your feelings. That is very hard to do! I too struggle with owning my own life and wanting to lean on the Lord! When I'm leaning... I also have peace... when I'm owning... i have much stress and pain... Why can't I learn this lesson? :) I'm praying for your quick return! I'm praying for Valera to get his passport asap! I'm praying for your new family as Valera assimilates into the US.... I'm praying for YOU! :)
ReplyDeletePraise God! He is sooo very good - all the time! I am so glad you are remembering to turn to Him! My prayer for you has always been for PEACE, peace that surpasses all understanding, and can only come from God. I am praying, praying, praying for that passport paperwork to get started first thing tomorrow morning! Love you all!
ReplyDeleteI thought I was good with technology, but today I have been fighting with the computer to be able to write a note to you... I just got a long message deleted by not hitting the right key!! :(
ReplyDeleteWell, I will try to recreate my message, but I don't think the inspiration will come again so easily...
I had misplaced the URL to the blog and thanks to your mom I was able to get in it again today. I read all your posts, and you made me cry, laugh, and go through many different emotions while I was reading your posts... I am so happy that you decided to use this blog as your way of sharing your feelings and everything that is going through your mind and your heart!! You are a really good writer!! Thanks for letting us share this important process with you ...
While these past few weeks have been very hard for all of you, I am sure that they have made your relationship with Valera strong. Being able to get to know each other without the craziness of the daily routine at home is something that you will cherish for the rest of your life. May not seem that way while you are there, but I am sure that you will realize how much those "lazy days" have meant for Valera's relationship with you and your dad when you get home.
The other good thing about this experience (I think) is that it is showing you what a "cultural shock" is and it is preparing you to be able to better support Valera when he goes through that process when you all arrive to the US. You will understand what he misses, maybe not why he misses it, but it will be easier to put yourself in his situation... you miss Peanut Butter, he will miss something else for sure. :)
We are counting the days to have you here with us and share the day to day life of your new role as mother of a BOY! Can't wait!!
Take care,
Ximena
Leaving the orphanage always makes me cry ... to watch the waves from the windows and to see the kids outside chase the car as I leave ... heartbreaking! The faces are still with me, I see them as I pray for them. Their situation is so bad but I remind myself that all are loved by God and He will have to sustain them. Be so happy that you have truly saved a life. He is one of God's miracles ...
ReplyDeleteValera James Miller, this message is for you.
Дорогой Вейлры,
Мы столь гордимся Вами. Мы не можем ждать, чтобы видеть Вас назад в Америке. Это не будет длинно теперь прежде, чем Вы дома так, мы можем обнять. Будьте хороши для вашей Мамы и дедушки. Zhayne с нетерпением ждет брать Вас для поездки в его грузовике! До скорой встречи, бабушка karol
Lisa,
ReplyDeleteI read your blog daily on my phone (but I can't comment from there) and relay the info to the kids. We are all enthralled with the story and I love that it is testimony to the Lord. I so get your all about ME temptations. The bible study I am doing is about idolatry. And one of our biggest idols is staring right at us in the mirror every day! We put ourselves before God.
Our bible study is challenging to me because we are not using a book with questions (the academic in me like it that way). We are "simply" meditating on a scripture for a whole week and seeing where God leads us. It is HARD but so good for me. As I looked up this week's verse online and was choosing a translation so I could cut and paste it to Facebook, I noticed that Bible Gateway had the translation in so many languages! So here is your verse in Russian:
Псалтирь 27:8
Russian Synodal Version (RUSV)
8 (26-8) Сердце мое говорит от Тебя: 'ищите лица Моего'; и я буду искать лица Твоего, Господи.
And Ukranian:
Псалми 27:8
Ukrainian Bible (UKR)
8 За Тебе промовило серце моє: Шукайте Мого лиця! тому, Господи, буду шукати обличчя Твого:
XO,
Melissa
The only thing I can think to say is thank you, Lisa, for sharing your heart - WOW.
ReplyDeleteWhen I went to Emmaus, God was/is teaching me the very samething, because I am human and selfish that I forget. Thank you for reminding me that its about our Heavenly father and NOT ouselves.
Your blog is such a blessing. We will pray for you , Valera, and Pa.
Love,
Karen