Tuesday, September 11, 2012

Double Stuff

Who doesn't love a double stuff Oreo? Ted brought us some from home, on his return trip to Ukraine.Valera discovered them in the cabinet today. He thought they were good before I even introduced the concept of dunking. I poured him a glass of milk and then he REALLY liked them.

Today, Anya, Valera, and I took a walk to the river to play soccer. To get to the park at the river, you have to walk over a bridge. It's a nice scenery, with the river to the sides. It's hard to enjoy the scenery though because you have to be on the lookout for the potholes- but that's not the point of my story.

As we were walking across the long bridge, I listened to Valera talk to Anya. Being the control freak that I am, and the interested mother, I am constantly asking Anya, "what did he say?" Today though I decided I was going to "let go" and just let them have their time in Russian.  Valera was very talkative and I wondered to myself, "maybe he is telling Anya how much he loves us, and how excited he is to be coming to America, how grateful he is not to be in the orphanage, etc, etc.".

As we were turning the corner, after crossing the bridge, I just couldn't contain myself for another minute. I blurted out, "what has he been saying to you this whole time?"

Anya says back to me, "He is telling me that he is so strong, he could jump off this bridge and swim across the entire river....from one side to the other".

Uh-huh....just the profound statements I imagined.

He's twelve. He's a boy. I know.

Just toss him another double stuff. Tell him the milk will make him even stronger.

4 comments:

  1. Sounds like "typical Mom" and "typical boy"... aren't we as parents hoping that are children are thinking those "warm fuzzy" thoughts only to learn they are thinking about how they can earn money fast to put new lights on their truck!!! :)
    Lisa, it was so good to talk to you and pray for you today. I hope you got lots of notes!! Still praying and knowing that God is holding your hand today... "The eternal God is thy refuge, and underneath are the everlasting arms." Deuteronomy 33:27 karol

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  2. That is sooooo funny!!!! I can hear your laughter in your humor! Lis... what is better than a double stuff? REally? :)

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  3. Lisa,
    Ah the joys of raising boys! Just when you think they are surely going to tell you something extrmemly engaging and heartwarming you find out that they can make every bodily function noise with their armpits! You know deep down inside they wouldn't be able to even entertain such lovely thoughts if they weren't already secure in knowing that all their basic needs are being met and that they are loved and secure. So enjoy the dreams and excitement knowing that the love you are giving him is giving him the ability to think about things other than where he can go to be safe and fed. In other words you are doing a great job and God will continue to give you strength and courage and perseverance for the balance of the journey.
    Wait until he gets a load of the thin mints come girl scout cookie time. Ahhhh the thought. Can't go wrong with oreos too.
    Just keep dunking, just keep dunking, just keep dunking!
    Blessings,
    laura passanita

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  4. Boys, boys, boys............so different from girls, but such a blessing!! Praying for you, Lisa!! Can't wait to see you and meet sweet Valera!!

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